may 19 2012
22.31
work
still...
@work
how many sugarbabies are anticipating and waiting for tomorrows
party to come?
it makes me smile thinking about all the girls excitement at going to this massive party
and hoping to find the right man and the right arrangement...finally to find the right one..
for?
financial gain?
companionship?
or ultimately...
love?
no one there would judge,make a big deal of why anyone was there
as everyone knows why people are there tomorrow...
being a blogger myself,a trawler at times,reading ,laughing,smiling at the bloggers
i comment,i share sometimes i referee...
and stil theres only one recurring thing i noticed,
all the stories however mundane,or however a blogger perceive themselves as 'stones'
with nsa arrangements,i cant help but feel these are all covered efforts to conceal true feelings.
after all we are all human.
we wont be able to conceal feelings however good actors we are.
but ofcourse to each is their own.
everyone plannig their own pre party meet ups,different days,from different parts of the uk.
some with views ofcourse of something golden and also a lot of misconceptions.
i hope everyone wont fail to see that not all will have these good arrangements at the end
of the evening,i would love for my friends to be in good arrangements though,as i know
they deserve the best of whatever there is to offer in the sugarbowl.
saying this, i know there are a lot of them who has expirienced a lot of flakeys and a lot
of men who werent true to their word...
but how different is this in the real world?
not a lot of difference aside from the fact that there is an arrangement in place where
the man is actually agreeing to take care of the woman without marriage.
how blind are people not to see this?
there are stories of sucessful arrangements,
monogamous...
happy,long term arrangments...
but where its going to lead no one knows exactly..
even some ending in marriage apparently
but there are a few and far in between..
some ended in heartbreak,deception...
my goodfriend blackcherry said while we were chatting,
i have a lot of chance that men would want to have an arrangement with me!!! haha
my question was why?
she said thats because i can do everything!
she said i am a package...
i laughed not sure if this is a good or a bad thing!
but yes,i have what i wanted and i know that what i want is what was given to me...
is it luck? or is it fate?
all i know is after all this hype,after all the excitement had died down,
after everyone made their own arrangements and were lucky to be able to get into
the sugarbowl...
yes,for us who are in it,with existing arrangements,who would actually be called
Sugarbabies
who has different arrangements in place
unique in our own way..
some arrangements in thousands of pounds a month,
some in several hundreds,
with business,property and dosed with a lot of affection,
some led to love
and some who were lucky enough to have all of this in place...
and for those who are still chasing the dream of being in one...
i wish everyone the best of luck after tomorrow...
all these beautiful people in one place..
but we musnt forget that after all....we are just people.
in special situations...
but people all the same...
